Sunday, 28 September 2014

Beating you to sleep....

Conversation while trying to put Aarav in bed tonight..

I was gently and rhythmically patting Aarav to sleep when Aarav spoke up.
Aarav, "Aai mala maru nakos".
(Momdont beat me)

Me, "Marat nahi thopatie mhanje zhop yeil tula."
(I am not beating youjust patting you for good sleep)

Aarav, "Thopatu nako. Maya Maya kar." (Dont patstroke me like a cat) After which he showed me the correct acceptable method.

After few minutes, he probably missed the rhythm, "Aai. Tu Maya Maya Maya thopat thopat kar." And showed how."Asa kar. Ok?"
(MomYou can stroke stroke stroke pat pat, like this ok?)

"Ok my little boss. Whatever you say."

Aarav telling me to follow rhythms...!!!!

Monday, 7 July 2014

Help a butterfly..

I read this somewhere.. may or may not be true names but the message is good to read...

A man was an avid Gardner... Saw a small butterfly laying a few eggs in one of the pots in his garden since that day he looked at the egg with ever growing curiosity and eagerness. The egg started to move and shake a little. He was exited to see a new life coming up right in front of his eyes. He spent hours watching the egg now. The egg started to expand and develop cracks.. A tiny head and antennae started to come out ever so slowly. The man's excitement knew no bounds he got his magnifying glasses and sat to watch the life and body of a pupa coming out. He saw the struggle of the tender pupa and couldn't resist his urge to HELP. He went and got a tender forceps the help the egg break, a nip here a nip there to help the struggling life. And LO! The pupa was out the man was ecstatic! He waited now each day for the pupa to grow and fly about like a beautiful butterfly, but Alas that never happened the larvae pupa had a oversized head and kept crawling along in the pot for the full 4 weeks and died! Depressed the man went to his botanist friend and asked the reason. His friend told him the struggle to break out of the egg helps the larvae to send blood to its wings and the head push helps the head to remain small so that the tender wings can support it thru its 4 week life cycle, in his eagerness to help the man destroyed a beautiful life! Struggles help all of us, that's why a wee bit of effort goes a long way to develop our strength to face life's difficulties!

As parents, we sometimes go too far trying to help and protect
our kids from life's harsh realities and disappointments. We
don't want our kids to struggle like we did.
But Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Dan Kindlon says that
overprotected children are more likely to struggle in
relationships and with challenges.
We're sending our kids the message that they're not capable
of helping themselves.
To quote clinical psychologist Dr. Wendy Mogel:

"It  is  Our  Job  to  prepare  Our  Children  for  the  Road...,  & 
Not  prepare  the  road  for  Our  Children..."

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